
“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you.” Matthew 6:14
In 1979 two drifters entered the home of an Oklahoma pastor and his family. At gunpoint they proceeded to rape the pastors twelve year old daughter before shooting and killing the pastor and his wife, and also shooting their 16 year old son and 12 year old daughter. Through a miracle of God both children survived the ordeal. Years ago I had the opportunity to meet this pastor’s son, Brooks Douglass, and hear his story. I’ve never forgotten the encounter, for as an adult Brooks went to the prison to meet one of his parents killers in prison face to face. The man took one look at Brooks and said, “I’m sorry for what I did to you and your family.” This was a response Brooks was not expecting. Somehow after those words were spoken Brooks could feel God at work within him.
Was It Possible To Forgive This Man?
Could he say the words? Would he mean them? Somehow, and only by the Grace of God, before Brooks walked out of that prison cell he actually looked his parents killer in the eye and said, “I forgive you.” Instantly Brooks felt a waterfall of poison wash out of his body. As he left the prison that day he felt like he could breathe for the first time in years. That gnawing underlying sense of anger and resentment was gone. Today, we all carry resentments in our lives against someone who has hurt us in one way or another. In this moment, do yourself a favor. Say the words I forgive you as you picture in your mind that person God is asking you to forgive. They may be hardest words you’ve ever spoken, but the sweetest sensation of relief you have ever felt is waiting to embrace you.









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